Thursday, July 5, 2012

Tonya at the Art Festival

July 4, 2012




I wore my HIV- shirt to the art festival knowing that I would be walking amongst hundreds of people.  I was interested in seeing the reaction to a middle aged Caucasian woman wearing their HIV status on a shirt.  The festival was extremely crowded with most attendees in their own world socializing with friends or bumping through the crowd.  As I walked into the booths, I could sense the artists reading my shirt but no comments.   Then I walked into the booth of an energetic and very social female artist.  She came up to me and introduced herself.  She commented that she couldn't but notice my shirt.  She said, "we have come along way; twenty years ago, a person wouldn't have been able to wear a shirt with HIV on it". 

"Good for you". 

As the festival crowds thinned, people were looking at me and reading my shirt without expression or concern.  Was the artist correct, society is accepting of HIV or was it only because my shirt indicated my status is negative?   I wanted to wear my shirt in another setting to see if people would ask more questions or respond to my shirt.

As a clinician at Planned Parenthood of Heartland in the metro, HIV testing is routine with all  our patients  seen for annuals and sexually transmitted infection screening.  There  is no testing based on lifestyle, risk factors, age, sexual orientation.  Testing is opt out.  So I  decided to wear my HIV negative shirt for entire clinic.   Not a single question from the staff as to why I was wearing the shirt  even though I didn't have my usual lab coat on.  Not a single question or response from patients.  The only comment I received was the fact that I was wearing scrub pants. We have come a long way, wearing HIV - was very accepted both in the clinical and public arenas.  

BUT what if it had said HIV +???

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